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I have really mixed feelings on rape-play in a sexual manner. I understand why you're against it and I support that wholeheartedly. I'm a rape victim myself, but I have some rape fantasies. I couldn't tell you if it's a result of my rape or not, but I didn't have them before. Maybe it fucked me in the head, but it's something I want to do, I guess, as a way of getting my power back when I'm with someone comfortable enough to play the "rapist." I'm sorry.

No rape victim has to apologize for how they deal with their assault. And I don’t think it’s my right to tell anyone what they can’t do sexually, regardless of how damaging I believe it to be. (It’s like freedom of speech: Everyone can say what they want, but it doesn’t mean those words are above criticism for causing harm.) What I wish for isn’t a world where rape victims are shamed for coping with their attacks, but rather one where those attacks don’t happen and these sorts of coping mechanisms don’t become necessary.

Anonymous

Anonymous asked:

I have a female friend who has rape fantasies. She says she can only orgasm from sex when she's imagining it's rape. Is she wrong?

You really think when I shared being horribly rape-triggered is the time to dump this on my plate? SERIOUSLY?

msjayjustice:

timetravelandrocketpoweredapes:

Super cosplayer Jay Justice

Cosplayer deviantart / facebook / tumblr

I didn’t post this, but thanks to OP for crediting me! And wow at all the comments & tags! Most of them had me cracking up but this one was not so good:
"you can really overlook skin color on how f*cking fantastic the cosplay is"

Skin color is not something negative you have to overlook to appreciate the ‘rest of’ the person you are looking at. It is not a flaw that you have to ignore in order to admire someone’s work. The person who said this was not complimenting me but exposing their own racial bias.

My skin color is not something ‘wrong’ with my costumes. Being a black woman enhances my costumes. Black women are the beautiful flowers that white supremacy tried to kill but we kept growing anyway. They try to tell us we’re ugly and dirty and sadly some of us start to believe it. They sell us skin bleach & hair straighteners, and white wash our characters and expect us to be complacent. When we speak out we’re told we’re too loud and angry and unfeminine.

I appreciate all the kind words on this post but I want to say that it’s not a compliment to express approval of someone ‘in spite of’ that person’s race. If you can’t appreciate my work without a negative remark about my skin color, the problem most certainly is not with me but within you.

TW: Rape

I had someone comment on my blog today explaining why rape fantasies and rape-play are A-okay. I explained that supporting rape-play contributes to a culture where men think women want rape, and that this was the justification my own rapist used, that he was showing me I secretly wanted it. (He literally said as much.) They responded that I was wrong and rapists never think that way.

I’m wrong. About my own rape. I’m wrong.

I’m so fucking disgusted right now. This person admits never being raped, but they still get to tell me about my own assault. This is what “sex-positive feminists” do to rape victims, and they don’t get why I don’t want to jump on their bandwagon? FUCK THEM. And anyone reading this who wants to justify rape-play to me can just unfollow me right now, because fuck you, too.

likeafieldmouse:

Monotropa Uniflora
"Also known as the ghost plant, Indian pipe, or corpse plant. 
Unlike most plants, it is white and does not contain chlorophyll. Instead of generating energy from sunlight, it is parasitic, more specifically a myco-heterotroph. Its hosts are certain fungi that are mycorrhizal with trees, meaning it ultimately gets its energy from photosynthetic trees. Since it is not dependent on sunlight to grow, it can grow in very dark environments as in the understory of dense forest. It is often associated with beech trees. 
The complex relationship that allows this plant to grow also makes propagation difficult.
The plant is sometimes completely white but commonly has black flecks and a pale pink coloration. Rare variants may have a deep red color.”
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likeafieldmouse:

Monotropa Uniflora
"Also known as the ghost plant, Indian pipe, or corpse plant. 
Unlike most plants, it is white and does not contain chlorophyll. Instead of generating energy from sunlight, it is parasitic, more specifically a myco-heterotroph. Its hosts are certain fungi that are mycorrhizal with trees, meaning it ultimately gets its energy from photosynthetic trees. Since it is not dependent on sunlight to grow, it can grow in very dark environments as in the understory of dense forest. It is often associated with beech trees. 
The complex relationship that allows this plant to grow also makes propagation difficult.
The plant is sometimes completely white but commonly has black flecks and a pale pink coloration. Rare variants may have a deep red color.”
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likeafieldmouse:

Monotropa Uniflora
"Also known as the ghost plant, Indian pipe, or corpse plant. 
Unlike most plants, it is white and does not contain chlorophyll. Instead of generating energy from sunlight, it is parasitic, more specifically a myco-heterotroph. Its hosts are certain fungi that are mycorrhizal with trees, meaning it ultimately gets its energy from photosynthetic trees. Since it is not dependent on sunlight to grow, it can grow in very dark environments as in the understory of dense forest. It is often associated with beech trees. 
The complex relationship that allows this plant to grow also makes propagation difficult.
The plant is sometimes completely white but commonly has black flecks and a pale pink coloration. Rare variants may have a deep red color.”
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likeafieldmouse:

Monotropa Uniflora

"Also known as the ghost plantIndian pipe, or corpse plant. 

Unlike most plants, it is white and does not contain chlorophyll. Instead of generating energy from sunlight, it is parasitic, more specifically a myco-heterotroph. Its hosts are certain fungi that are mycorrhizal with trees, meaning it ultimately gets its energy from photosynthetic trees. Since it is not dependent on sunlight to grow, it can grow in very dark environments as in the understory of dense forest. It is often associated with beech trees. 

The complex relationship that allows this plant to grow also makes propagation difficult.

The plant is sometimes completely white but commonly has black flecks and a pale pink coloration. Rare variants may have a deep red color.”

herbackrowkings:

lalondes:

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